What’s a Girl to Do?
As serious as this question may sound depending on the situation, it is nowhere cute to hear it when someone is low-key bragging about how they have been to Harvard three times to speak. It is a great achievement, nonetheless, but it isn’t something you can drop like that on the internet without anyone thinking this is plain bragging. We have the right to reserve the term humblebragging for this one.
Maybe she needs to not give out speeches at Harvard to get the attention of her alma mater. Imagine the case where Marquette University is deliberately avoiding her, knowing full well what she might brag about in her speeches there. In that case, we say it is a smart move.