Nigerian women expects their men to provide virtually everything for them even if they are working and earning good money of their own. They see it as evidence of caring and responsibility on the part of man. If a man is not able to provide for his Nigerian woman, she may see him as incapable and irresponsible. While this is not exhaustive, it however the general perception on Nigerian women and 70% of them reasons that way.
When a man approached a Nigerian woman for the first time, the question he usually gets is “Where are you working?” or “Where do you work?”. This will enable her make firsthand judgement and determine if the man is capable enough to provide for her needs. Some may not ask but will carefully look at what you are wearing, the car you are driving, or anything in you that may give them clue as to how financially responsible you are.
Another thing they look out for in a man is the physical stature. They want to see how tall, how masculine, and how clean you are, especially the urban girls. But trust me, even if you are the tallest in the world but lack deep pocket, average Nigerian woman may likely turn you down.
Majority of Nigerian women don’t want flings, they want lasting relationship and always demand for that from the first day. They want to know if you are married or currently dating someone else. And they are probably the most industrious and most enterprising women you’d ever find anywhere.
Since Nigerian women are expected by their male counterpart to be a good home maker, almost all Nigerian women are good cooks and perfect homemakers. In fact the first means a Nigerian girl shows love to her man is by making his home (cooking for him, washing the dishes, and his cloths) this way, you know she is into you.
Why Nigerian Women Are Faithful
When you approach a Nigerian girl who is involved with someone else, the first response you get (if you’d ever get any response at all) is ‘I’m in a relationship’ and further attempt may be completely rebuffed. While their men most time are a little bit unfaithful, the women cringed to their men respectfully maintaining the home front.
60% of divorce cases involving Nigerian women may actually be the fault of their men, either they are being neglected which may ultimately push them out for other men or their men are excessively infidel.
One of the reason for the relative faithfulness of the Nigerian woman is because the cultural background. Theirs is a society that placed premium to morality and respect to marital vows. Once a Nigerian woman is in a relationship, it becomes as if she is already married and is expected to be faithful to her man/boyfriend even if that one isn’t faithful in return.
Another reason is the religion. 90% of Nigerian women are involved with one form of religion – Christianity or Muslim, and both religion preaches against immorality. Beyond that, their parental upbringing is one of the major factor. If a Nigerian girl is not properly brought up from a decent home, you would expect her to be wayward.
Why Nigerian Women Are The Most Beautiful in Africa
Because they come in varieties, different sizes, shades, and shapes, and they are extremely $exy. They dominate the lists of the most beautiful women in Africa for good reasons.
Women in the south and east, especially among the Igbo and Yoruba peoples, are known to be very educated, so they occupies positions in the professional fields and to some extent in politics. This refined form of education add to their look make them the most beautiful in Africa.
Dating a Nigerian Woman
Average Nigerian girl will make for a good house wife because they are thought how to be submissive from childhood. They make home, do the washing and other domestic works, even most times combining it with full time secular employment. They are the best in the work when it comes to making a good home. But you need to be a Nigerian man to enjoy all these.
If you are from outside of Nigeria wanting to date a Nigerian girl, you better think twice because 60% wouldn’t want to marry from outside their own tribe let alone from another country. You have to be a superman to be able to pull this. You can date them, do everything but when it comes to marrying a European or American, that may be pretty difficult.
However, there is an option – if you are willing to relocate to Nigeria and be living with her in Nigeria. You can travel once in a while to your country with her, no problem about that. She just have to be close to her old friends and family which is what she had been trained to accept. The perfect family and community bond that exist among Nigerians makes it exceptionally difficult for their women to marry outside. That’s the hard truth.