#30: That’s Unfortunate
Most of us don’t like to be reminded of our past mistakes, and that often includes our dating history. We’re not sure that relationships can be considered mistakes, because even if a relationship ends (even if it ends badly), there’s usually something we can learn from it – a valuable lesson – and that’s good.

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Although we know it’s true on paper, it’s hard to consider every mistake you’ve made as something positive just because you learned something from it. Looking back on our dating history can be embarrassing sometimes; thinking of all the people that were so clearly wrong for us can be discouraging.