The Best of Both Worlds
Introverts aren’t robots, they’re more like cats (we can’t seem to get enough of the animal analogies!). Cats are like the spirit animals of introverts. We like to be independent and avoid human contact, but we also want love and affection. This can be very confusing to the people around us, especially spouses.
Introverts are pretty hard to figure out in this regard. Another thing about us wanting love and constant affection is that we do not just want it from any random person. We only want this love and affection from the people that have been accepted into our inner circle. We’re quite picky when it comes to the people that we allow into our lives.