Give and You Will Receive
The secret behind a good relationship is 50-50 partnership. You have to give and put in your best if you expect your SO to do the same. Speaking of giving, this OP often offers shoulder and neck rubs to her partner. You may think, “Oh that’s sweet” but wait, there’s more.
She does this every time she wants a rub because once she’s done with him, it’s her turn. You may think why not just ask him for one but according to her, giving him one first gets her the best rubs in return because he’s more relaxed and feels more obligated. Interesting theory, wouldn’t you agree?